The Dangers of Spaghetti & How to do the Heimlich Maneuver

Yesterday, as I was leaving for work, I leaned over to kiss Chandler good-bye when I noticed he had a very startled expression. He had been chowing down on his spaghetti, slurping away, when a few rogue pieces traveled down the wrong pipe. In my panic, I couldn't remember how to do CPR/Heimlich Maneuver on a child. So, my beloved son was the recipient of Infant CPR/Heimlich Maneuver. I am definitely more versed in that area. Bless his heart, I am surprised I didn't give him a pneumo with my vigorous back blows. Praise God it still worked!

But for everyone's benefit, below is a refresher on how to do Child CPR/Heimlich Maneuver.

How to do the Heimlich Maneuver & CPR on a Child:

Signs of choking in the child with a completely blocked airway are:
The child suddenly begins to cough, gag or have high-pitched, noisy breathing
An older child may make the choking sign (holding the neck with one or both hands)
The child has bluish lips or skin

Actions to Relieve Choking in a Child
When a child is choking and can't breathe or speak, you must give abdominal thrusts (the Heimlich maneuver). The Heimlich maneuver pushes air from the child's lungs like a cough. This can help remove the blocking object. You should give abdominal thrusts until the object is forced out or the victim becomes unresponsive.
If you think a child is choking, ask the child "Are you choking?" If he nods, tell him you are going to help.
1. Kneel or stand firmly behind him and wrap your arms around him so that your hands are in front.
2. Make a fist with one hand.
3. Put the thumb side of your fist slightly above the navel (belly button) and well below the breastbone.
4. Grasp the fist with your other hand and give quick upward thrusts into his abdomen.
5. Give thrusts until the object is forced out and he can breathe, cough, or talk or until he stops responding.

If the choking is not relieved, the child will become unresponsive. When the child becomes unresponsive, shout for help, lower the child to the ground, and start CPR. If someone else is present, send that person to phone 9-1-1 while you start CPR.

The steps of CPR of the child who has become unresponsive after choking are the same, with one addition.
1. Yell for help. If someone comes, send that person to phone your emergency response number (or 911) and get the AED if available.

2. Lower the victim to the ground, faceup. If you are alone with the child victim, start the steps of CPR.
3. Every time you open the airway to give breaths, open the victim's mouth wide and look for the object. If you see an object, remove it with your fingers. If you do not see an object, keep giving sets of 30 compressions and two breaths until an AED arrives, the victim starts to move, or trained help takes over.
4. After about five cycles or two minutes, if you are alone, leave the child victim to call your emergency response number (or 911) and get the AED if available.

Chest compressions may force the object out. If you are alone with the child and these steps don't work after about one minute, phone 9-1-1.

***The above steps are from the American Heart Association***

Continuing our Eco-friendly Efforts

It has come to my attention that today is "World Ocean's Day"!

How I miss living near the beach! The ocean is an amazing, living entity. Our planet is almost 3/4 ocean. It is beautiful and powerful. And I believe that it is part of our responsibility to care for it.

I am amazed how often people see us with our reusable shopping bags and comment, "We should start using those!" Target started last week by crediting customers 5 cents per reusable bag! What if every store did that? Imagine the possibilities!

We also purchased a door mat today from Bed, Bath & Beyond. It is made of recycled and scrap flip-flops! It is too cute and it reminds me of in college when I took a rock-climbing class and the floor of the facility was made from flip-flop remnants!

1st Day at the Pool = ER Visit

This post is late, go-figure. So last Saturday we dealt with burning down the kitchen and the very next day, chaos continued...

Last weekend was the much anticipated re-opening of our community pool. We splish-splashed and swam around for nearly two hours when the "hurt cry" halted our festivities. Even new parents quickly learn to differentiate between cries. There's the "I'm angry" cry, "I'm tired" cry and the "I'm hurt" cry. This cry grabbed the attention of every parent at the pool. Chandler limped up the stairs of the pool and although I was fairly far away, I could see the blood. Our pool is irregular shaped and instead of corners that cut out like a traditional rectangular pool, there are areas with little alcoves where corners cut in. Chandler was swimming/kicking and his ankle struck one of the corners that jutted out, splitting his ankle open. Pressure applied, bleeding slowed... but not stopped. Quick examination of his wound and I knew he needed sutures.

Four hours later, we left the ER... all sutured up! Chandler was so incredibly brave. Even the doctors and nurses commented on how well he handled the procedure! No tears!

Also pictured... Chandler's first set of stitches.. at 12 months old. So my fault... and to this day I am consumed with guilt when I think about it. In his 1 yr old birthday party pictures he is all bandaged. =(